What Does It Mean to Be Sexually Compatible?

I’ve always thought that sexual compatibility was underrated. If you’re looking for a relationship you’re “supposed” to prioritize things like shared interests and values and even mutual attraction over how much you click when having sex. Historically I guess this makes sense since we weren’t supposed to be having sex with people we were going to end up in relationships with, but these days we know most people do, so why is putting sexual compatibility high on the list seen as superficial or slutty?

One of the unpleasant side effects of sexual compatibility not getting its due is that we don’t talk enough about what it means in the first place. Is it the same thing as “sexual heat”? Is it the “click” that some people feel? Is it a tension or a comfort? And is it simply there or not, or can sexual compatibility be cultivated?

Find out more about sexual compatibility and have your say about how important sexual compatibility is to you, and how you define it in the first place.