What His Porn Says About Him
Ohhhhh man. You went snooping through your man’s stuff and and found his well-worn porn collection. (That’ll teach you!) Before you dip yourself in Purell, take a moment to peruse his stash — it could be the window to his sexual soul.
“Everybody has a unique ‘lovemap’ which is basically an index of their turn-ons and turn-offs,” says sex and relationships counselor Ian Kerner, PhD, author of “Passionista” and “He Comes Next.” “Porn can provide clues to a guy’s fantasies.”
We asked Kerner to weigh in on what your guy’s tastes say about him … and how you can use that info to improve your lust life.
Schoolgirls et al
Fortunately, Kerner says that checking out barely legal ladies doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s a Chester Molester.
“Guys realize that these aren’t actual schoolgirls, but actresses performing a taboo — the ‘naughty innocent,’” says Kerner.
You can make the most of that turn-on with some schoolgirl-lite ideas: Don a white-buttonup with a plaid mini, ask him to “teach” you what to do in bed, call him daddy and make him talk you into sex (“Are you sure I won’t get suspended if we get caught?”). Or don your old cheerleading uniform, a la Maria Bello and Viggo Mortensen in “A History of Violence.”
What are your thoughts on the subject?









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July 16, 2009
7:28 pm
wow. good advice. I wouldn’t have thought too look through his porn! lol