Top ten reasons why relationships work

This article serves two purposes. It will give the top ten reasons why relationships work, but it will also show what a successful relationship needs (what one should be looking for).

1. Goals – both parties have similar short term and long term goals. This is important because once everything is on the table, a new level of comfort and stability come into the relationship.

2. Monogamy – both parties both want to be in a monogamous relationship. This? Is key.

3. Trust – when a high level of trust is formed, it knocks out negatives such as jealousy and feelings of disloyalty (paranoia).

4. Drive – it is imperative that both parties in a relationship have the drive to make the relationship work. One careless partner can destroy the relationship.

5. Common Interests – sure, opposites attract, but it’s always a plus to have something in common. Doing things together does more for your relationship than you think. It’s like glue.

6. Chemistry – yes, this has to do with being attracted to one another and wanting to make out with each other on a healthy basis.

7. Compatibility – this has more to do with the interlocking of two people’s personalities. Someone who is aggressive, loud, and outgoing will work best with someone who compliments those attributes. Personalities should be complementing not overshadowing.

8. Family Values – a couple that has similar family values will find life (and holidays) together easier. This has less to do with religion or culture – but more to do with how close each other is to their family and if each person is a “family person.”

9. Communication – this is also key to a happy, healthy relationship. Learning to talk with each other (not TO each other) is an art really.

10. Fighting fair – every couple is going to fight. Learning to fight fair is essential. Less yelling, more getting to the point – there is no “winner” and there is always a kiss before bed.

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