Booty Cache

I’ve always thought that sexual compatibility was underrated. If you’re looking for a relationship you’re “supposed” to prioritize things like shared interests and values and even mutual attraction over how much you click when having sex. Historically I guess this

It probably says something about the circles I run in that I heard about Marilyn Chambers before I heard about Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick, but like Chamber she passed away on Sunday and at a relatively young age.

From the Times obituary:

“Ms. Sedgwick

There are all sorts of ways to approach sex. Being a sex educator I tend to take the most direct route (which, ironically, doesn’t always get me there the fastest). But I learn just as much from people who get to